Sexy Lingerie – A Man’s Buying Guide

July 3rd, 2017  Tagged

As a man, I truly know nothing about choosing plus size erotic lingerie and many men fall into this group. How confounding is it? Well let’s see, what type of lingerie should you buy? What size does she wear? What color would she choose? How are we supposed to know all this without sending the wrong signal? Following is a man’s cheat sheet to buying sexy lingerie for your partner.

There are a number of things to think about before purchasing lingerie. First and foremost, don’t get it wrong or you will find yourself on the living room sofa. What are her dislikes and likes? Keep in mind that you will not be wearing this–she is, so get something she will like. If she likes it, it will show and you just added another notch to your belt. If she is not into the lacy, frilly, see-through teddies, and you end up buying one, good luck getting her to wear it. You might as well throw your money out the window, because that is where that lingerie is going – the big black hole at the bottom of her lingerie drawer.

If you want to get an idea of what she likes, check out her lingerie drawer. Check out the materials of what she currently has in her lingerie drawer. Check out the type that she likes and most importantly, check the size. If you only remember one thing, remember her size. If you get her something too big, in her mind you just let her know that she is overweight. If you get it too tiny, she might think that’s adorable or think that this is your way of telling her she needs to drop a few pounds. I’ve been there, done that and, trust me, you don’t want to be there. Not a good thing at all, we are talking a few days or a week or so of nothing. If the label has the word “Control” run, do not walk. These items are used to flatten, or firm, their mid-section and their derriere (her ass). It’s a way for us to get into that no win territory. If the lingerie in her drawer are not what you had in mind, get her two things, one for her and one for you.

If the store you are purchasing the lingerie from offers gift wrapping. Spend the additional few dollars to get it gift wrapped for a better presentation. Think of this as a sales presentation to a new customer. If you decide to wrap it yourself to save a couple bucks, at least go out and buy new wrapping paper that she did not purchase. Trust me, she knows what wrapping paper has been stashed in the closet. If you’re uncomfortable shopping for lingerie in a retail store, then research online shops that sells lingerie. You can also start at Fredericks of Hollywood or Victoria’s Secret, and many of the leading department stores also offer lingerie. Remember – keep the receipt just in case.

Now, what to look for. There is every single type of plus size erotic lingerie┬áthat you can think of and then some you did not even know existed! Ask yourself what your intention is and understand the occasion. If you’re trying to tell her that she is the love or your life, a crotchless or skanky outfit won’t cut it. But if it’s your anniversary or Valentine’s Day you will probably get a much better response. If you’re just buying lingerie for the hell of it, be careful. One of two things can happen. First, she could be so surprised and think how thoughtful you are, and then one thing leads to another. Secondly, you buy the sexy lingerie and she wonders what your guilty of or who did you see wearing this lingerie that you want her to wear it. I usually get the, “what is her name?”.. At this point, it depends on the relationship you have with your significant other. I have been married quite a few years and the reaction I get is the latter. There are too many variations and styles that it’s difficult to grasp.. Look for something that is not too difficult to put on. Don’t buy lingerie that she cannot figure out. If she can’t get it on, you’ll be fumbling to take it off. The bras alone have numerous designs including rise, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded. Can someone please tell me what the differences are, I mean, a breast looks good in anything! You may want to do a little bit of research online and look for something not too complicated, she won’t wear it that long anyway.

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